Neuro-of the brain
Diversity-the state or fact of being diverse;difference,
unlikeness
I was disheartened yesterday when an online friend “unfriended” me because I am a Lesbian. No I don’t shout it to the rooftops, or throw it in everyone’s face-I have no need because I have no fear about it-I am who and what I am.
What many of us don’t understand, though, is that we are owned by those things that frighten us the most. Neurophobia,fear of those who think differently from us is a pandemic problem.
Wars are won and fought because of the fears we have. Lives are lost,. children are bullied and commit suicide because of Neurophobia.
I love everyone. I do. I fear no one-no one! I just don’t. I have no reason to because I love and accept myself just as I am. Have I always? Of course not. I grew up in a fear, shame, and guilt-based family system. I have been on my own journey of healing just like you. Do I have fears and insecurities? Every day. They come and they go-some take longer than others to pass through, but that is about how deeply the fear goes.
As the Neurodiversity Coach I want to support you and Guide you in releasing the things that scare you the most. These thoughts are the very things that are keeping you from being all that you can be.
Bullying begins with one simple thought that we aim at ourselves-I am not enough. This snowballs until we are filled with self-hatred. Unfortunately, more often than not, we project this self-hatred out. We bully the people who are most like us! We get angry at the very people who are showing us who we truly are.
It amazes me that those who are most opposed to Homosexuality, are those who have the deepest secrets to hide. You would be surprised to know how many people were bullies and homophobes before they came out and loved and accepted who they truly are!
I am a Christian. I am. I know that Jesus is the EloHim of My Universe. I also know, factually, that the Bible was written hundreds of years after His death, by the Council of Nicea. This council was led by Emperor Constantine. There were many Gospels not included in the New Testament and these have become known as the Gnostic Gospels. So, do I take every word in the New Testament as the Word of God? No, I don’t. I do, however, take what Christ said and did very much to heart. There is quote after quote in the Bible, attributed to Jesus Christ that talk about Compassion, Forgiveness, Unconditional Love, Kindness, and Service to those in need.
This is the Jesus that I know and Follow. He Commands me to Love with my Whole Heart, even those who “hate” me-those who project their fears at me. Why? Because the amount of fear required to hate someone you don’t even know is so intense, that if you are the person feeling that hatred, you have a lot more to worry about than me!
I know evil exists. evil is a by-product of fear. The opposite of Love isn’t hate, it’s fear. We fear what we don’t understand and choose to ignore in ourselves. If you see yourself as a True Christian, as a Follower of the Most High Jesus Christ, then let go of the fear you feel about all those things within you-look at them! Ignorance is nothing more than ignoring reality! When you truly Love and Accept yourself, warts and all, that is the true Miracle! To be able to look at yourself in the mirror with Authentic Love and forgive yourself as Christ has already forgiven you, as evidenced in His Crucifixion, the devil cannot harm you! That is how we are saved by the Blood of the Lamb!
If you really, really, want to be of Service to the Light, to the Most High Jesus Christ, then truly Love Your Self! Let that Love radiate out! Allow the Light and Love of Jesus Christ enter into your Heart! Let it warm you and Heal you! Let that Love flow out to everyone and everything around you. Franklin Roosevelt was so right-we have nothing to fear but fear itself!
Stay grounded in your body in Reality! Face what you are most afraid of! The only people places and things that control you are those that you give your Power to. I am here to help!
Light and Love to All of God`s Children in Christ!
Heather M. McCrae, MM MEd
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You were not unfriended on Facebook because you choose to be Lesbian. Think about the hateful comments that were directed at me, for expressing myself. I too, fear nobody on this Earth. I am a God fearing
Christian woman, who has given my life to Christ.
I was very honest when I told everyone that I do have close Lesbian friends. They don’t continuously post Homophobic materials, nor is the topic of our conversations about our sexuality.
I judge nobody. It is not my place. I hate no person, rather I Love all people.
In closing, if you wrote this article about me, please take a look deep down inside of yourself.
I have inner pease and my life is overflowing in Peace and Love.
Cindi, in one of your many comments, you were surprised to learn that I am an Ordained Minister. I do not recall saying anything to you that was hateful. I also do not recall anyone saying anything to you that was hateful. I too wish you nothing but Love and Peace and again apologize for anything I may have said or done that caused the end of a friendship.
Light and Love to you,
Heather